I think that the American
Dream is having a family, job, house, and possessions that you can call your
own. Society expects most Americans to live this dream and have these possessions.
In some cases these possessions may be meaningless but they are still valued
and represent an important part of who you are. America offers the hope and
means by which to achieve this dream, which is why it is called the American
Dream. America offers the education available to get a good job and meet the
right spouse, form there you can create a family and build up wealth to accrue
a house and possessions.
I would define wealth as
the total value of the possessions and relationships that you have with others.
The first part of this definition may be a bit shallow (sorry), but it is what society
defines wealth as and that has made an impact on my definition. I think the
second part of my definition of wealth is very important, the relationships
that you have with people, as you can see with Daisy and Gatsby, are very
important I throughout your live and can offer lifelong happiness. In The
Great Gatsby you can also see the possessions side of this definition as Gatsby
talks about his yacht while throwing a major party in his estate. This brings
me to Americans’ definition of wealth, which I believe is just the possessions
and material wealth that an individual has. In this book you see that money is
valued by society and that changes individuals and forces them to become money
crazed. Their attitude towards poverty is that it is when people did not work
and expected to coast by. People see poverty as a shameful thing to be in and
that those who are impoverished deserve to be because they did not work hard
enough.
My personal view of
wealth and poverty differ from that of the societal norms and values. I think
that poverty results from individuals not receiving the innumerous opportunities
that we have here in the United States. They are not able to get a high paying
job because they didn’t have access to the education that we have here in the States.
They are forced to work for minimum wage and be shamed by society for that. I
view wealth on the surface as your self-worth or the money you have. Looking
below the surface I believe that true wealth is developing lasting
relationships with others and truly caring about others. These friends and
family that you make will be there though everything but you may lose your
money or possessions through that run. The real wealth lies within you and the relationships
and choices you make every day.
Eventually, I would like
to achieve the American dream by settling down with a wife and kids in my own
home with a stable job. More than that though I want to develop lasting
relationships and love my job. Obviously we will be working for a long time
before we retire, I want to do something I love so that waking up every morning
is exciting, and days are viewed as new opportunities. The American Dream is definitely
a part of my future, but it is about finding the right people and job to make
that dream become a reality.